That Question Every woman want to hear...

"WILL YOU MARRY ME" that is the most romantic question every woman want to hear to come out of the lips of a man. That's the aisle of every relationship, it's the peak of a relationship and the start of a whole new horizon. ..

And you wonder, as a guy, how will I tell her this. .. Cos, it's a special question but if and only if it comes with the right atmosphere. Saying that requires the right atmosphere and of course the right time. 

You must be very conscious of those. 

Now, consider this. 

Rule #1; don't propose to her if she's not in her right mood. Gobe! That could be very disastrous, Cos of course what you would get is squeaky freaky NO. Make sure she's in her right state of mind. Not tired, not depressed, not unhappy, not sad. Make sure you've hitted the perfect right time.

Rule #2: make it a special moment, different from every other day and every other time. You see that's the fun of it. Just make it a little bit special.

Rule #3: Make sure there's no form of any distractions. If it's a dinner, switch off your phone.

With these top 3 rules, it's time to bend those knees! BUT, let's go back to rule #2, where to propose and how to do it. 

Every woman has always been found fantasising that perfect moment they would be asked that question. Cos, believe you me, EVERY woman wants it special and not just the way you ask her will you go for lunch with me. 

I've heard of so many proposed manners, which I'd like to share some with you. My top 5 actually! 

# at work .. Wow! Not your working environment, hers! If you are both in the same working environment, perfect, you'd sure have the 101 spectators. But if you work in different places, make sure before that proposal, get use to her colleagues at work. Take time out to go there, chat and gist with her colleagues, get familiar with them (both male and female in its right proportion). So that the day you want to propose to her they won't be asking "is that her guy?".

 And make sure you tell a colleague of hers, especially a guy in her working place about your intention, so he'd be the one that will arrange it all for you, and give you the perfect moment. He'd be the one to set the time for all her colleagues to be together. cos that's the fun of it when there are a lot of people sitted and watching.

# in the church .. Yea yea yea... I know some of you would be like "huh?"... Now, I tell you, to me that's the most romantic place to pop that question. You'd get the attention of a congregation and even the presence of your girlfriend's parents and family.

Here is how to get started. Tell her you want to come to her church or wait till she invites you to any programme on her church (proposing is all about making use of the right opportunity). Then secretly meet with her pastor to tell him about your intention. Hmmmm.. I know some of you would be like why must you get someone involved, yea cos that person would be the one to watch your back. Cos I'm sure you wouldn't want to be embarrassed, not in front of a tens and hundreds of people who are holy in his presence anyways! 

Now tell him what your plans and if he doesn't accept, dude, walk right straight up to that sit and glue your buttocks till they share the grace, Cos I'm sure you don't want to be the shared disgrace! But if  he give you the go-ahead, then let's move on!

He's going to be the one to call you out personally for some sort of rendition. Then you start with the love and inspirational talks (note :it must be relating to the scriptures) you can start by narrating how special she is, then you can now call on her to step forward. Or you can simply let the pastor do it all. He would be the one to call her out, make some speech about love. Then at the perfect timing you as the guy steps upfront. Then you go down on your knees, deep your hand into your pocket to bring out that box, pop the question...

 Hey.. Be at alert, to catch her heart, as it will jump out of her mouth! And of course, the beat could increase up to 20/sec! 

#at a ceremony .. Not just any ceremony, but a ceremony that she's really a stakeholder in it. Probably, her sister's wedding, her dad's house dedication, her brother's birthday party, anything.

Just make sure it's one that, she's got 50% on it. This one, you don't need to involve anybody. You can simply spot the right time yourself. Just be smart and conscious of time. When and where you know you can get the attention of people she knows. That's the fun of it. She want to feel special not just in front of you but in front of her loved ones, family, colleagues, relative, friends and neighbours! So be conscious of that!

# in an eatry... Yea yea, this place you have to be a crazy fella to do this. Probably, you both can go out for dinner, then you step up, hit any iron to get the attention of people. After getting their attention, tell the people how special she is and how beautiful she is. Make her feel comfortable, then go right down on your knees, bring out that box and pop the question.

# in your sitting room  . .. Yea, this would just be the two of you. If you're OK with that. You should know her favourite movie, or any movie she's really eager to watch. Get that movie, copy it on your system and edit it. At the middle part of the movie, you can add your own movie, a scroll of  "<<<<<<<< Eni, WILL YOU MARRY ME" on the screen, make it long enough at least to catch her eyes.

Now invite her over to your place. Prepare her favourite meal. Then tell her you've gotten that movie she love to watch. While taking your snacks, your box is right inside your pocket. You should be conscious of the time, the scene next before the  QUESTION, (cos I'm sure you don't want her to go use the bathroom as at that time). The moment the question pops up on the screen, wait for some seconds, for that shock to be all over her, and then you go down on your knees and propose officially to her!

# in a  public place . Now don't get it twisted, not the normal ones, at the bus stop or market place. Well, you might want to consider those places anyways. 

Here is how to go about it. You are going to involve your friends. You'll  get a customised shirts for them which will have the question written on it. (WILL) (YOU) (MARRY) (ME). That means you going to be needing 4 of your friends. (note, it must be friends she doesn't know).

Now, you going to make sure you both are together in your car and if you don't have one, not too worry, you can rent car cab (#smiles). Act one scene one: your friends who are going to be putting on the customised shirt,will cross your car in front, make sure you calm her down for her not to get too scared. Then they (your friends) come down right in front of your car, turn around to back you guys and the message is written on the back of their shirts. Then you do your thing, by bringing out that box, and officially telling her to marry you....

Of course she's gonna hit your chest! And tell you "how could you". At the end, she smiles and tell you "yes". 

So, do away with those boring proposals, let it have some great touch of romantic atmosphere.

As D'banj said "love is a beautiful thing".... 

And you find it the rarest of place.... 

Now I pop up this question to you, yes I mean you..." WILL YOU MARRY ME?"